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What People Wish They Knew Before Their First Month at NS

Real advice from Network School alumni: what they wish they had known before arriving, from packing tips to mindset shifts to social strategies.

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The Forest City Reality

The single most common piece of feedback from alumni is that Forest City is emptier and more isolated than expected.

The single most common piece of feedback from alumni is that Forest City is emptier and more isolated than expected. Photos and descriptions do not fully convey the experience of living in a largely vacant development. Members wish they had watched video tours or read detailed accounts rather than relying on marketing materials. The adjustment takes about a week, and most people come to terms with it or even appreciate it, but the initial surprise can be disorienting. Knowing this in advance helps you arrive with calibrated expectations rather than experiencing an awkward first impression.

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Pack Less, Buy More There

Nearly every alumnus says they overpacked. Malaysia and Singapore have everything you need at affordable prices. Toiletries, casual clothing, electronics accessories, and snacks are all readily available. The only items worth packing carefully are prescription medications, specific supplements, your laptop and tech setup, and specialized workout shoes. Everything else can be purchased in JB or ordered online within days. A lighter bag also makes the journey from the airport to Forest City significantly more pleasant, especially if you are navigating the border crossing on your first day.

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Say Yes to Everything in Week One

Members who had the best experiences report saying yes to every social invitation, workout, event, and trip during their first week. This accelerates relationship building and helps you find your people within the larger community. After the first week, you can start being selective about what you attend based on your interests and energy. But the initial social investment pays enormous dividends throughout your stay. Skip the first week of social activities and you may spend the rest of your month trying to break into groups that formed without you.

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Set Work Boundaries Early

The social intensity of NS can make it difficult to maintain work productivity if you do not set boundaries from the start. Let your cohort-mates know your work hours and respect theirs. Use the phone booths for calls rather than taking them at communal desks. Block focused work time on your calendar and treat it as non-negotiable. The Morning Burn, meals, and scheduled events create a natural rhythm, but the time between these needs to be actively protected if you have a demanding remote job or startup to build.

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The Experience Is What You Make It

The final piece of wisdom from alumni is that NS is not a resort, a school, or a conference. It is a container for experiences, and the quality of your stay depends almost entirely on what you put into it. Members who arrive passive, expecting to be entertained or transformed, tend to leave disappointed. Members who arrive with goals, whether fitness targets, professional objectives, or relationship-building intentions, tend to leave deeply satisfied. Define what you want from the experience before you arrive and communicate it to the people around you. You can apply at ns.com and start shaping your experience from the moment you submit your application.

The #1 alumni tip: say yes to everything in week one to accelerate relationship building

Source: Alumni surveys

Nearly every alumnus says they overpacked -- JB and Singapore have everything you need

Source: Member surveys

Arrive with goals, say yes to everything the first week, and set work boundaries early. Those three things determine whether you have a good month or a great one.
Danny Castonguay, NS member/blogger
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Frequently Asked Questions

What do NS alumni wish they knew before their first month?

The top three: Forest City is emptier than expected (watch video tours first), nearly everyone overpacks (buy things in JB/Singapore), and saying yes to everything in week one is critical for building relationships.

What is the most common mistake new Network School members make?

Underestimating the isolation of Forest City and overpacking luggage. The second most common mistake is skipping social activities in week one, which makes it harder to integrate into the community.

How should I prepare mentally for Network School?

Arrive with specific goals (fitness, professional, social), say yes to everything in your first week, set work boundaries early, and understand that the experience rewards proactive engagement over passive participation.

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